What do I actually do?
Any break up situation can leave you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted and lost. I am here to work with you to ensure you find the smoothest and most direct route possible to a successful outcome with minimal emotional turbulence. I will:
- • Give you non-judgemental, straightforward and honest advice
- • Share highly effective strategies to give you the desire and motivation to move forward positively
- • Show you how to start taking back control of your life
- • Help you navigate your way through adversity with grace, courage and your head held high
- • Give you drive, strength and focus, enabling you to function normally in everyday life, at home, as a parent and at work
- • Teach you how to dial down negative feelings
- • Help you future plan realistically with clarity and optimism
Who are my clients?
Every client and their situation is different, but every client is reaching out because they recognise they need support in one way or another, whether that is emotionally or practically - usually both. Typical scenarios include:
- • Trying to leave a controlling/abusive/narcissistic relationship safely, often after having tried unsuccessfully before
- • Wanting to start divorce proceedings but having no idea what to expect or how to handle things
- • Leaving a difficult, powerful or high level partner
- • Infidelity by the other partner – dealing with betrayal as well as separation
- • Being left by the other partner and having no one to turn to for unbiased advice
- • Feeling overwhelmed and losing direction in the middle of divorce proceedings
- • Getting to the end of the divorce and not knowing how to move forward
What does a session look like?
Every potential client has a free initial discovery call - this is a 10 or 15 minute chat for
me to determine your situation and explain how I can help you, and for us both to
determine whether we are a good fit and can work together. The right chemistry is
essential and you need to feel trust and connection from the get go.
Our first real session takes 90 minutes – this is where you offload your story, from start
to finish . You are essentially handing over your baggage to me so we can unpack
everything together, isolate your main fears and emotions and work out what needs the
most immediate attention. We get to work straight away on changing how you think and
the way you feel, with coping strategies for you to take with you from day one.
All consecutive sessions are one hour – every time I see you I will help you see how you
can start to take back control of your emotions and your life. With concise, manageable
action plans to work on before each following session, step by step you will start to see
and feel the change in how you think and act, until the time comes when you feel you
simply no longer need me. You will be fully equipped with all the tools you need to move
forward independently, knowing that I am always there if you need me.
Why choose me?
There are lots of divorce coaches out there – I am a triple accredited Master Practitioner,
with specialist and in-depth training in domestic abuse and toxic relationships. I am
accredited by The International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence, The CPD
Standards Office and DASH Charity.
Having been through a tricky and complex divorce process after 20 years of marriage to
a company director, I understand those feelings of overwhelm, guilt and confusion that
so often accompany us unnecessarily on our journey. I came into this profession after
realising there had been a gaping hole in my support system before, during and after my
divorce. It was tough, lonely and emotionally draining - and I wish I had had the
specialist support I now see I needed.
By the end of my first session with a new client, I can literally see a difference – they feel
heard, they feel validated and they sit taller – and that is just the start of it.
How much does it cost?
- Initial discovery call - FREE
- Per session - £130
- 5 Sessions - £585
- 10 Sessions - £1050
- Crisis Package - £1000 per month. Weekly session plus ongoing WhatsApp/email messaging support
- 6 Month Support Package – £4,750. Weekly session plus ongoing WhatsApp/email messaging support
For bookings please call or message Victoria Dunn at +44 7825 329248 or victoriadunncoaching@gmail.com
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